Before you stick out your tongue and start saying you don’t like cabbage, let me just say that even if you don’t, I promise this is a casserole that you will love. Someone told me that I needed to watch Cooking With Brenda, a little lady from Alabama. Well, I did today. I’m not much for watching a bunch of videos, but I couldn’t help but watch when she started making several Southern casseroles that just screams, “yes, I belong on the veggie table at every church put luck or family reunion!” Immediately I ran to the kitchen and made it. Then when we had it for dinner, we both knew that this would be at our Easter meal with ham and a pot of green beans, and, at Thanksgiving with turkey and dressing. Trust me on this, it is just delicious! As Ms. Brenda said on her video, just always use what you have in the pantry and you can’t go wrong. (unless you are like some of our family members who don’t have anything that resembles any Campbells cream soups or a stick of butter in the house. But….this casserole will make it worth the trip to the store to get some soup and butter.
I used a 9×9″ baking pan, Brenda used a oblong casserole baking dish. Because there are only two of us, I figured that how much damage can a 9×9 do to Randy’s cholesterol as he goes at 9 am in the morning to get it checked. So here it is folks and you can thank me later.
1 small head of cabbage, cut into pieces, no certain size, just chopped up, not real fine or small. But not too big. Ask the papa bear how to get it just the right size.
1 small Vidalia onion or 2 small onions, chopped
Place the cabbage in the dish, place the chopped onion over the cabbage. Sprinkle with a little salt and pepper.
Stir 1 can of Cream of Chicken ( i only had cream of celery on hand so used that)
1 cup of Mayo
1/4 cup melted butter.
Stir the soup with the mayo and melted butter. Spoon over the onion-cabbage mixture being sure and covering all over.
Using 1 sleave of Ritz crackers, smash the crackers and put in a clean bowl. Pour 1 stick of melted butter over the crackers and stir to combine.
Sprinkle 1 cup of shredded cheddar cheese over the cabbage-onion mixture. Then sprinkle the butter-cracker crumbs over the cheese.
Place in preheated 350 oven for 45 minutes. Remove when casserole is bubbling and cracker crumbs are golden brown. Thank you Ms. Brenda for sharing this awesome easy casserole with us. It is my new favorite veggie.
We have been trying to have more meatless meals these last few months and with dishes like this, it is just amazing how much we do not miss meat.
Had this dish tonight with cornbread dressing, baked sweet potato, black eyed peas. It was a feast fit for anyone who loves Southern Cooking!








Made this cake for a friend this week and it was such a hit. Several friends have ask for the recipe when they saw the picture on FB so here it is. It is easy and so yummy. Also, a friend of mine told me the other day that she didn’t understand how my cupcakes were always so soft and moist. The secret is, keep them in the refrigerator (covered) until about an hour before serving them.

1 Duncan Hines chocolate fudge cake mix


What a joy it was to visit my daughter and her family last week in Phoenix, AZ. Yes, it was very hot. But the times of laughter and just being with them after 5 months of not seeing them was such a delight. As we drove around with the younger boys (ages 8 & 11) in the back seat, they ask their mom, Jodi (my daughter) if we could listen to a couple of comedians who we have always enjoyed listening to. One is Brian Regan. He is one of those who just makes me laugh by looking at him when he is delivering his comedy routine. The boys also love listening to him. So as we drove around trying to find a restaurant that didn’t have an hour and a half wait, we listened and laughed. In fact, we were laughing so hard, we were almost crying. Our stomachs hurt, not from hunger, but from laughing. At dinner on Tues night with the whole family, we began to reminisce about when Caleb was born. We were there celebrating Calebs’ 11th birthday that night and as we began to think back about how we thought the first baby the nurse brought out was Caleb and we were all oohing and crying at how precious he was, only to find out that wasn’t Caleb at all, but someone else’s baby, we began to laugh, thinking back about that day. In fact, when the waiter came over several times, he told us, “every time I come back to your table, ya’ll are laughing hysterically” And we were. It was just one of those special times when everyone was in a joyful mood and everything seemed funny. Laughter is truly good for the soul. My last night there, I told Jodi, if laughter keeps a person from getting sick, I probably won’t be sick for the rest of my life, I had laughed so much. But this story is not complete until I tell about the river trip we made on Friday. It just was a reminder of what God wants from us….our trust.
We got home from church and since Randy is needing to work overtime on the weekend, I decided that I would bake, while he worked. When I ask him what he was in the mood for, he said anything but chocolate since sometimes eating chocolate in the evenings keeps him from sleeping well. We had talked today about him needing a phone because the hand me down he got from me last year (for me to get a new phone with more memory) is acting up, so between me looking at recipes and new phones on the internet, I also was looking at puppies, since we do want to get another doggie when we end up moving to a new place. I was on a web site that had teacup yorkies when Randy walked in to ask what I had decided to bake. Before answering him, I showed him the cutest little yorkie with a pink bow in her hair and looked at him with puppy dog eyes that immediately told him I found an adorable yorkie. He looked at it and said, “how much does that cute little thing cost?” When I responded that she cost about $3000, he looked at me and said, “$3000? I wouldn’t even pay that for you.” I think this sheltering in place is beginning to show its ugly face. And please don’t write and tell me I’m awful for spending that much money on a dog when they have so many in shelters. We would NEVER pay that much for a dog or anything close to that. I just have fun looking at pictures of cute puppies. So now back to the cake. Going to the pantry to see what I had, I discovered I had the necessary ingredients to make a coconut cake. It ended up so moist and yummy and will have it to snack on for a couple of days. I use a small bundt pan that allows me to make two so I can put one in the freezer for another time. Picture is of the two small cake pans I used